I realized I haven't kept in touch with a lot of friends and thought we shall all have a re-union. Planning the people and mentally calculating their attendance feasibility, it just struck me that hardly any of my friends are the same as we were when we departed. I mean in terms of responsibility, commitments etc. Most of my girls are either engaged or married and most guys are off to different countries pursuing education and money. So! everyone's progressing, while I still happen to be the same. (not that I am craving to be drowned in commitments or married)
Me considered meeting up with people in Bangalore. But looks like people are so immersed in their lives, that they would rather spend a weekend with their better half than others. Acceptable!
Another thing that struck me: Why is the above point mostly right with girls than with guys? Something to do with guy-guy bonding that stays strong despite the addition of other relationships. And the girl-girl bonding doesn't....
Maybe because boozing ad guffaw-ing cant accept a female partner but shopping can accept a male partner